What is LOVE? The answer to this
question is one I cannot describe or explain, since I have not experienced it
in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. But love from the degree of
friendships, family, etc. I can relate to. I think the love of family for me in
my case outweighs the love of friendships. You begin to realize things...
things from family members that you didn't bother to put any interest into
noticing, things you never truly showed you cared about before. Sometimes it is
the option of death, birth, unconventional circumstances that
unexpectedly arise in life that wake you up to make a change in life until its
too late. It's the love around you that you allow yourself to surround about
that gives you hope and belief that a deeper connection that can mess you up
either for the good or bad that allows you to hold on when you think all it is
is a hopeless dream not ever going to come. I believe each and every one of us
in this world wants to experience a love relationship that of you see in the
twilight saga movies. Sometimes love can push one another part or it can bring
two people together that were not as closely together but yet not completely
apart. But I think before you can get this loovee you have to love YOU first!
You have to be able to accept you for you and love every detail, flaw, and
impefection about you so you can be happy in love with another person.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Beauty of Friendship
In life you begin to
learn who will always stand near through the rough, cracked up patches while
being there for the smiles and butterflies also. You learn of the ones who are
only good enough to be in your life when they want to be or when times are
going good for you but when the times are rough there not in sight.
Life puts you through
obstacles to make you witness a lesson and to be able to grow on that lesson.
It gives you people that will leave you without even looking back but leaving a
lesson for you. There are those people who get so deep inside of you they can
screw you completely and utterly up well ending up okay in the end. Lastly,
there are those who come in from day one who love you unconditionally no matter
what happens in your life and are always a guiding light.
The real people in your
life, that make you realize the things you are too stubborn to see are the ones
who matter most. The ones who believe in you, cry with you, understand you, are
happy with you, and are completely there even if your in the wrong are the ones
who give you a really good sense of direction. The ones who are always in your
life are sometimes taken for granted and you end up standing around waiting for
the ones who are no where in near sight.
Those people who believe
in you, when you think all else is failing and they see a light of hope that
you yourself don't see is when you have been given something unexpected at the
right time. Even though at the wrong time it doesn't seem to make much sense as
to why certain people walk in well others walk out or why the ones who have
always been there step inside a little harder to give a deeper sense of help.
Its those who give a little deeper when you would least expect them to offer
more than they have already offered you in your friendship of life. It is those
who are willing to chase something not openly unfolded completely to experiment
with the inner mess otherwise never really been touched by them previously
other than a surface layer.
It's the true beauty of
friendships which stand along the edge with you that count the most. So
treasure them and don't push them away because sometimes you don't get that
second chance to claim what you had back.
signed,
BRIGHTLIGHTS
♥
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Monday, March 8, 2010
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
RIP, McQueen Alexander; Fashion Icon.
McQueen took his own
life just days after his beloved mother Joyce died. It also has been three
years that his dear friend took who pick him out of obscurity and helped him
become a influential success took her own life.
02/12/2010
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