Life is about being
unique, different, yourself - as in completely raw and real nothing fake. It's
about loving and treating yourself with respect. Well having those you also
need to have a positive outlook as well as thoughts. It's what gets you the
things that you want and need in your life. It's you that makes your life,
nobody else. It's the dreams, desires, hopes, wishes and complications along
with sacrifices that make life. The challenges make are not there to hold and
bind you it's there to give you a lesson as well as that you have the ability
to overcome it and that is why it is handed to you.
You may think obstacles
are there to stop you and not make you achieve the things you are intending to.
It isn't the case if you are focused and have a positive mind set then you can
accomplish anything your little hear and mind desire. I think the main thing in
life that makes things happen is having belief and believing in luck. You make
those two on your own, yet maybe chance or pure luck just happens to some of us
as we like to think or maybe just maybe we created it ourselves. We created it
by imagining the impossible possible! I think you have to look really hard at
the word impossible, there is a positive statement within it, all it takes is
you to break it down .. I'M POSSIBLE! I think that should be something
inspiring and get you along your way into a direction another than negative
thoughts and thinking that bound with the word in it's negative context.
Life is about taking
risks, it's about enjoying it to the fullest and not being afraid. It's about
finding something you love and are passionate about. It's about finding your
first love and always remembering even far down the road. It's about breaking
down the barriers, so that you are able to feel everything completely, feel all
the emotions inside of use. The emotions of joy, happiness, pain, sadness and
everything else in between. Those are the things that get us through things and
by when we feel it all by trying to numb certain aspects you're not. You're
really numbing everything and when you do that you lose the feeling of joy and
happiness that is inside wanting to be explored and shared.
Life is about being vulnerable
and just allowing others to accept us for the way we are and if they can't then
they can't we just have to move onto the next person. Everyone is a beautiful
rose allowed to blossom and grow to the full potential that is waiting right in
front of there toes. Sometimes we think we can keep one foot behind well having
one foot go forward to have the best of both worlds but really it doesn't work
that way. It's either you're in or you are completely out. Sometimes those
risks are what gives us the hope, belief and luck that anything can truly
happen and became possible. Sometimes in life there is no 3 strikes and you're
out, sometimes there is only one and you either have to make a choice and take
it or leave it. It may not be the right direction but along the journey you are
bound to come to the right path you were looking for.
It may be harder but
along the way, you are assured some valuable lessons and or the ability to let
go and have fun. Life's about accepting yourself to be the best you are for you
not for anyone else and not for the standards of society. The standards that
need to be measured up are those of your own and yes people will give you their
opinion or advice but at the end of the day it is your choice in what you chose
to do. You make the way you life comes about, so do the unexpected, take risks,
believe and love with everything you've got whole-heartedly and do everything
whole-heartedly. Never give only half-heartedness into something because when
you do that is when you strip away the things you truly want and that's not
what life's about.
The real reason for life
is to find joy in the simple things because the simple things are what make our
life extraordinary. We are what make us the cup of tea we want and those that
come across us will be attracted to us just by allowing yourself to evolve and
having like-minded values and beliefs.
signed,
BRIGHTLIGHTS `
